I was reading an old copy of BottomLinePersonal and ran across this discussion by Richard Busse of this concept, from Fired, Laid-Off or Forced Out: After you've been warned or suspended, use the rule to develop a more positive relationship with your boss: each week, for at least three weeks, find a reason to seek out your supervisor's advice and respond positively. Recreate a positive view of you as an employee and wipe away the memory of the discipline.